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Thursday, March 25th, 2010 | 4 Comments

Do Men Want Virgins?

By Vanessa Hunt

Do men want virgins?

Do men want virgins?

I remember in high school, finding out who wasn’t a virgin, both guys and girls, was such a huge deal. Some girls were ostracized and some guys were the shizz because of it, but overall, most guys wanted to meet an experienced girl.

Now that they’re grown men, has that changed? Do men want virgins?

It’s a difficult question to answer because there are pros and cons to each type of woman. So join me on my journey to figure out whether or not men want virgins.

How can men want virgins?

Funnily enough, the other day, I was talking to a few girlfriends about this very same topic and none of them wanted a male virgin. Every single one wanted a man of experience and taste in the bedroom.

And if that weren’t enough, when the tables turned, they began laughing at the mere thought of men wanting virgins. Why? Because there are none left. People are not only having sex at a younger age, they’re having casual sex – and lots of it.

So why am I even writing this? Well, because a “virgin” doesn’t necessarily have to be a woman who has never had sex, but rather a woman who is not very sexually experienced. And there are some of those around.

Virgin advantages & disadvantages

When it comes to inexperienced women, there are a couple of advantages:

Men want virgins view #1

A man is good by default

Because she’s not very experienced and hasn’t been with many men, she has no one to compare you to in bed, which alleviates a lot of the pressure and helps you feel better about your performance.

Men want virgins view #2

She might be open to anything

Although some might think that a virgin would be afraid to try certain things, I believe that, because she’s not sure what’s “normal” when it comes to sex, she might be willing to try anything. I was sorta like that.

And then there are some disadvantages:

Men want virgins view #3

You have to teach her

Because she’s not familiar with most aspects of sex, it’s possible that you’ll end up having to show her and direct her in bed, which is fun up to a point, but eventually becomes boring.

Men want virgins view #4

She might get attached

There is a good chance that she might become attached after such an intimate experience because she’s not used to having casual sex.

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Tags: dating virgins, inexperienced women, men want virgins, sexual experience

About Vanessa Hunt

Vanessa Hunt surrounds herself with men in order to get a sneak peek into what they're up to in the dating circuit. Slowly studying their mating habits, she puts fingers to keyboard and comes up with interesting advice to help men get the women they want.

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Do Men Want Virgins? - COMMENTS

  1. A good friend of mine makes two trips to Mexico per year to stay with family that he has there. His sole purpose for visiting, aside from seeing family, is to find a “suitable” virgin to marry.

    To me, I think it’s crazy because he is NOTa virgin… He’s kind of a man whore, actually.

    Ultimately, what makes him happy is what is most important. For myself, though, I have a hard time getting behind my friend’s logic. He has one set of values that he’s set for himself and yet holds women to a different standard… Meh.

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